Poem 316
This could be old man in the sense of father talking to child or a random old man at the bus stop distilling his life experience unasked and unwanted for anyone in earshot …
The Old Man’s Advice
Know who you hate that's the main thing never mind love the snail in an iron shell it's not love that gets you out of bed in the morning not the milk of love blistering your mouth as you try to get another cup in know who you hate and where to find them know them better than yourself know how they eat and how they hate know who you are by who you hate embrace your brothers embrace your sisters in the line to your right and your left never walk in the centre of the road never leave home without your hate be wrong about who you love wrong about who loves you never mistake who you hate their separate faces voices where they go at night know them and go home with them wake up and see their faces like blades laid on the pillow know that you're climbing a rack of swords and climb on safely